Usually I know all his pins and figured it was in case the kids were playing with his phone, etc. I clicked his messages and something else on there (can’t remember) and found there was a pin to unlock. He is much more tech savvy than I am so if he WANTED to hide something electronically? He could and I’d never know until he wanted me to which FINALLY brings me to the subject of this post: I picked up his phone the other night when he was upstairs in the shower and found the “whisper” app. I use the same philosophy with my kids: if you don’t want me knowing about it? You shouldn’t be doing it. Like if pick up your phone and look through it? It shouldn’t be a big deal because there should be nothing you’re worried about me finding. he could hop on and find this and read it if he wanted because I have nothing to hide so, I kinda feel the same. I try to respect his privacy and do not like to be a snoop however, he knows all my pins, passcodes, etc. I was so honest and kind in my delivery (I wrote him a letter for him to read so I could get my thoughts out but leave the tears away 😅) he seemed to understand, apologize again and just said he wishes it never happened to this day and we both agreed we should make sure to re-block her (she made a whole new profile and is married and has a child now, but still) and be done. I did discuss it with him and said I thought it was weird, noticed she was fb friends with his sister and that it made me uncomfortable, reminded me of things, and that on top of us having intimacy issues, it really had me worried. Recently this woman popped up in a local mom group (to ME, not him) and brought feelings I thought I was over flooding back. I know it’s possible but, I just FEEL like something else is going on he’s not telling me.ġ2 years ago before we were married, we had infidelity issues that we worked through. He’s even mentioned being worried about ED. He says mentally he is attracted and he loves me very much but physically nothing works (apparently he can’t even pleasure himself, but how the hell am I gonna know that’s true?!).
We’ve talked and he says, INSISTS even that it’s NOT me, it’s him. He is visibly “ready” at certain times and agreed to try once about a month or so back and he just goes limp. He has almost flinched when I go to touch him “down there” almost as if he’s disgusted, I’ve tried to “service him” orally once a couple weeks ago and he screamed like it was too sensitive and didn’t want it (usually if he doesn’t want to that will make him change his mind). We have NOT done it in so long, I can’t remember when and I can’t even have sex with him in my dreams (seriously, even my DREAMS present a problem to us having sex but at least in my head he WANTS it).
Happy anniversary, babe”) and usually, my husband is always up for sex. This is our 3rd child, we just celebrated our 11year wedding anniversary this month (he didn’t even try to make it special btw, I posted a heartfelt post on fb and a cute collage pic and he said “awe, I love you too.
So, I know someone else had a post about basically having no sex and I shared my story of basically not having had sex since shortly after we conceived on that thread.
Hey moms! This is gonna be long so, please read it all and help me out.
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